Thanks everyone for your help.
We have spoken to Vehicle Standards and they were very helpful and we now understand where we are at factoring in the TBW in the GVM and adding the GTM etc
The GVM upgrade was only to allow us to carry slightly more in the vehicle because loaded we were likely to be about 50kg over, we were aware that it didn’t up our GCM.
Its staggering how many people have no idea about weights (we were included in that category) but its such an important factor. I believe that both car and caravan manufacturers are misleading and somewhat negligent in not explaining it all correctly at time of purchase. Especially what the real meaning of 3.5 towing is. We were told when ordering our van that yes, our DMax would pull the van no worries and when ordering the DMax yes you can pull 3.5 ton but nobody stops and carefully explains that you have to factor in GVM and GCM etc.
But, in our case we are now confident we will be pulling out onto the open road legal and safe
